In a world where everyone has an opinion about everything and the most sensitive subjects are banded around the media, with no due care for the consequences, I am often blessed with hearing about why Christopher might have autism, sometimes from complete strangers! I do enjoy these conversations…about as much as I enjoy going to the dentist. At least at the dentist you usually have your mouth held in a position where you cannot inform the opinion holder of their arrogance and narrow mindedness. Unfortunately, away from the dentist, I do find I need to purse my lips with extra force so as not to shout obscenities in the direction of the speaker.
There are a few schools of thought that crop up frequently.
The first, is that the vaccinations (MMR) a child has as a baby leads to autism. Despite the fact that no medical evidence has ever been found to link the two, people still discuss whether this could have caused it. A family member even called me to ask whether or not I felt that Christoher’s autism was caused by the MMR and did I think they should vacinate their child? To say that I was flabbergasted by the conversation would be a huge understatement. If in doubt about vaccinations, pop over to google images and search measles, mumps or rubella. Then, come to our house and take a look at my son, he is healthy, strong and strikingly handsome. I know which I would prefer! I may well pull my hair out on occasion but my son is not dying and my choices as a parent are not putting other children’s lives at risk. If only there was a vaccination that would prevent people falling victim to hysteria!
Secondly, and by far my favourite of all- “I Don’t believe in any of those things”(Those things, being autistic spectrum disorders)….Or, “Those things didn’t exist a few years ago”. There have been moments, upon hearing either of these two nuggets of wisdom, that I have wondered whether my head has taken on the motion of the famous head spinnining scene from the Exorcist. I am fairly certain that I have evolved in a way that allows my eyes to glow red at least! Indeed, there has been a marked increase in the numbers of children who are diagnosed. Surely common sense must prevail here. Could it be that autism is not increasing, but that schools and parents are all becoming for more aware of the possible signs and in turn, health professionals are becoming better at diagnosis? To those people who ‘don’t believe’, absolutely fine, I imagine that when Aristotle first discussed the world not being flat he would have met people who did not believe! Incidentally, it has long been felt that Aristotle probably had Aspergers syndrome, a high functioning form of autism.
There is a school of thought that genetics play a role in the cause of autism. As a parent, this is a challenging theory to contemplate; I almost feel that it suggests blame and has certainly led to some finger pointing within our family. Scientifically, there is a strong genetic link and autism does tend to run in families. The actual genetic markers for autism are highly contested and will be under investigation for a very long time. When I consider this theory as a cause of my son’s autism I can certainly place certain behaviours and characteristics to both myself and my ex husband. I am creative, hot headed, audacious and a little bit socially awkward, whereas my son’s father is Logical, stoical, highly intelligent and through his career has become quite the upper cruster! We are complete polar opposites and our relationship reflected this. However, we managed to create an amazing little person who carries the best and the worst parts of our personalities. Indeed, we have a name for this mismatch of personalities and we call it autism. So if we are to ‘blame’ for passing on our genes and creating a ‘disorder’, then I for one am immensely proud! There are of course the children and families at the other end of the spectrum, who do not interact at all, do not engage with their parents or the wider world; For those parents, to hear suggestions that the autism has been ‘passed on’ like a common cold, must be exasperating.
There are many more reasons that I have either heard or have read about the cause of autism. I have a theory of my own, based entirely on the thoughts in my head. I do not have a laboratory, I am not a doctor. This theory only covers the higher functioning end of the autistic spectrum; Unlike many of my peers, I will not propose to understand something that I have no clue about.
My Theory!
In previous posts I have mentioned the iconic heroes from our past who are all linked with ASD in some way.
Imagine a world without Darwin and his off the wall theories…..He must have spent so much time, heavily focussed on his theories, determined to prove himself correct. I can envisage him deep in his own world, toing and froing, wiggling his ideas until they were just right. At the time, to suggest that we are linked to primates must surely have caused a huge commotion. He was scared, he feared the world that did not understand him. We do now!
Consider Einstein, he contributed so much to science and mathematics. Again, he must have been so brave, he even disproved and elaborated upon some of Newton’s theories at a time when even Newton’s theories seemed far stretched. Einstein was considered crazy, people were unsure of him. His own parents described him as ‘slow’ and he failed a test to get into a university when he was 17. We now know and understand that Einstein was a genius.
Temple Grandin, arguably the most famous autistic person in today’s world, uses her incredible intelligence and abilities to make the world a more humane place for animals. She also educates and inspires people to understand autism and to see the positive impact this ‘disorder’ can have on the world.
So, my theory is simple. Maybe Autism, in its higher functioning form should no longer be seen as a negative, perhaps this is evolution and we are all playing witness to where humanity will eventually lead. A world where things get done, efficiently and for the greater good of mankind. A world where people strive to understand workings and will always be aspiring to create a better model than the one before. Not a static society where stupidity and greed rule.